Dear loved one,
1. Pay Close attention to your Communication style. Don't run your marriage on assumptions. Don't ever assume that your spouse heard you each time you speak.
2. Be Accountable to people with proven marriages. You have access to counsels that are sound because most issues we grasp with can be resolved through objective counsel.
3. Your Associations speaks volume.
Your friends can either help build up or destroy your relationships.
Your current friends actually predict your future in marriage.
4. Create time for your family.
Marriage is like a well tendered garden. You have the responsibility to
nurture yours so it won't be overgrown with weeds. There is no perfect
man and woman out there. We are all work in progress with God at work in
us.
5. Understand the unique need of your spouse.
Seek to understand their love language and discover what matters to
them. Everyone is confronted with matter of differences. The issue are
not such differences but how we access godly wisdom to sort them out.
6. Don't be absorbed in self-indulgence habits
like flirting, use of nicotine, alcohol and pornography just because
you think the relationship with your spouse is not working. You can do
yourself more harm than a replacement therapy.
They
are qualities in your spouse that you can't find in any other person on
the planet no matter how you try to substitute them. Confront the
reality and resolve the challenges in your marriage. Divorce is not an
option to be considered each time you are confronted with challenges
because the pain of divorce is bigger than the act. Always remember
this: love is not a feeling but simply a decision made from your heart.
Marriage is constant work in progress. We must be committed to work ours
out
Have a great week!
Shalom!
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